On 14 July, we commemorate National Honour Based Abuse Awareness Day to honour Shafilea Ahmed and all victims and survivors of honour based abuse (HBA). Shafilea Ahmed tragically lost her life in an honour-based killing by her family in Bradford in 2003 when she was just 17. This day serves as a reminder of the importance of raising awareness about HBA and providing support to those affected.
What is Honour Based Abuse?
Honour based abuse (HBA) is a form of domestic abuse that encompasses a variety of harmful practices. These include child marriage, virginity testing, enforced abortion, forced marriage, female genital mutilation (FGM), as well as physical, sexual, and economic abuse and coercive control. Unlike some forms of abuse, HBA often revolves around notions of honour and shame. Individuals perceived to have brought dishonour or shame upon their family or community may be subjected to these abusive practices as a means of punishment or control. It is important to note that HBA can be established without direct violence against the victim, and the justification for such abuse is often rooted in misguided cultural or religious beliefs.
Who is Affected by Honour Based Abuse?
HBA can affect individuals of all ages and genders, although it disproportionately impacts women and girls. Perpetrators can include parents, siblings, other family members, and even members of the wider community. While HBA is more prevalent within communities from South Asia, the Middle East, and North and East Africa, it can occur in any cultural or religious context. It is crucial to understand that abuse in any form is unacceptable and cannot be justified by cultural or religious traditions. HBA is a form of domestic abuse, and all forms of domestic abuse are illegal.
According to the UK government's Tackling Violence Against Women and Girls strategy, there is limited data on HBA. However, it is estimated that there are around 12 honour-based killings each year in the UK. Victims and survivors of HBA tend to experience abuse for longer periods than those experiencing other forms of abuse and are at increased risk of serious harm, including homicide.
Getting Involved for Honour Based Abuse Awareness Day
Honour Based Abuse Awareness Day provides an opportunity for individuals and communities to come together and take action. Here are some ways you can get involved:
Spread the word: Share social media posts using the hashtag #WeRemember to raise awareness about HBA.
Attend events: Participate in events like the free University of Derby ‘Honour-based Abuse Awareness Conference’ event.
Support for honour based abuse
If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, always call 999. For victims and survivors of HBA, there are local and national support services available to provide assistance. For the most up-to-date information and resources, visit the Leicestershire Police website.
On this Honour Based Abuse Awareness Day, let us come together to remember the victims, support the survivors, and work towards a future free from such abuse. Your involvement and awareness can make a significant difference in the lives of those affected by HBA.
On 14 July, we honour Shafilea Ahmed and all victims and survivors of honour based abuse (HBA).
Shafilea Ahmed tragically lost her life in an honour-based killing in 2003. This day serves as a poignant reminder of the importance of raising awareness about HBA and providing support to those affected.
It's estimated that there are around 12 honour-based killings each year in the UK. Victims and survivors of HBA tend to experience abuse for longer periods and are at increased risk of serious harm, including homicide.
Join us in raising awareness and making a difference. Learn more about HBA and how you can get involved by visiting our blog.
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